I also purposely added two Elton John songs. I couldn’t leave off “No Valentines.” On the surface, it plays like an “anti–Valentine’s Day” ballad about loneliness, disillusionment with romance, and the sense that all the usual gestures—cards, hearts, the holiday itself—lose their meaning after heartbreak. I like the artistic idea behind it: a melancholy counterpoint to the usual Valentine’s sugar rush, a song that focuses on the absence of love rather than its celebration. It may be anti‑Valentine’s Day, but it belongs here, because every good love‑song playlist needs a shadow to make the light shine a little brighter.

Valentine’s Day Love Songs Playlist
“Every Day I Write the Book” – Elvis Costello“My Funny Valentine” – Frank Sinatra
“Too Much Passion” – The Smithereens
“Cupid Must Be Angry” – Nick Lowe
“I Guess That’s Why They Call It the Blues” – Elton John
“Under My Thumb” – The Rolling Stones
“The Shoop Shoop Song (It’s in His Kiss)” – Cher
“No Valentines” – Elton John
“Lips Like Sugar” – Echo & the Bunnymen
“She Loves Me” – Stephen Duffy
“Wonderful” – Adam Ant
“If Sugar Was as Sweet as You” – Rockpile
“Now That I Have Found You” – The Juliana Hatfield Three
“Happy Loving Couples” – Joe Jackson
“Four Leaf Clover” – Catherine
"Modern Love" - David Bowie
“She Belongs to Me” – The Ramones
“What a Crying Shame” – The Mavericks
“Tempted” – Squeeze
“Arthur’s Theme (Best That You Can Do)” – Christopher Cross
“It’s Different for Girls” – Joe Jackson
“Every Breath You Take” – The Police
“Love My Way” – The Psychedelic Furs
“Unchained Melody” – The Righteous Brothers
“The Lady in Red” – Chris de Burgh
“Fools Rush In” – Elvis Presley
“I Just Called to Say I Love You” – Stevie Wonder
"Baby, Baby" - Amy Grant
“Hammer in My Heart” – Utopia
"Higher Love" - Steve Winwood
“Juju Man” – Dave Edmunds
“Mystify” – INXS
“Every Time I See Her” – Dave Edmunds
“For Your Babies” – Simply Red
“Love Plus One” – Haircut 100
“At Last” – Etta James
“I Can’t Help Myself (Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch)” – The Four Tops
“In Your Arms” – Erasure
“Never Tear Us Apart” – INXS
“How Sweet It Is (To Be Loved by You)” – Marvin Gaye
“Love Shack” – The B‑52’s
Valentine’s Day playlists are never really finished; they just collect new stories. I like the idea that this one can keep evolving past whatever year you’re reading this, so consider this your invitation to help me wreck it (lovingly). Drop your own embarrassing favorites, anti‑Valentine’s anthems, slow‑dance staples, and “we really shouldn’t have called this our song” tracks in the comments. I’ll keep adding standouts to the list—because if love is a little chaotic, the soundtrack should be too.❤️
